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The day I realized I was neglecting my Self Care.
My self care had become non existent. Do you ever just get annoyed with...existing? Like just waking up on some days is exhausting? Yea,...
A Starry Life
Jul 4, 20213 min read


Be kind to yourself, it's ok to start over.
Stress and life just cause my moods to be all over the place on any given day, I can never predict or call it. I am also a moody Cancer...
A Starry Life
Feb 24, 20213 min read
What happened when I changed my diet: Self-love, a foodie journal
I have always struggled with my weight, it always fluctuated. I have always loved sweets, I used to think I might turn into a little...
A Starry Life
Jan 31, 20212 min read
My Manifestation Story: How I manifested my man, my job, & my life.
The Power of Manifestation Many of us have heard the saying around manifestation, or a saying along the lines of, "Speak things into...
A Starry Life
Jan 5, 20215 min read


The importance of having girlfriends.
I've been binge watching a popular black sitcom, as many of my peers have since Netflix released the news that we would be getting so...
A Starry Life
Oct 28, 20203 min read


The hardest break up I’ve ever been through; What they don’t tell you about going vegan.
The hardest break up I’ve ever been through, Wasn’t with a man (Lord knows I’ve had quite a few of those), Not even a best friend. Yall,...
A Starry Life
Oct 19, 20202 min read


TAKING CARE OF MYSELF WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY BUDGET. SELF-LOVE: GALENTINES DAY EDITION.
It’s February, we have already jump started our fitness goals by hitting the gym last month, gotten our vision boards ready to manifest...
A Starry Life
Feb 13, 20202 min read


New year, same me: Self Love. A process.
I was stuck. Between who I wanted to be and who I knew I could be. This manifested itself as self talk conversations and even mental...
A Starry Life
Jan 16, 20203 min read


High functioning depression is real.
High functioning depression looks like waking up, everyday, knowing you have somewhere to be, but not having the energy or willpower or...
A Starry Life
Jan 13, 20201 min read
I’m sorry. It was my anxiety.
He didn’t know when he entered into this, so it wasn’t really his fault. I don’t blame him for how he reacted. He never knew how I laid...
A Starry Life
Oct 23, 20192 min read


No, I don’t have kids. But I still ain’t got it.
Is it just me or is it that people with children no matter what age, assume that because you do not have children you have “extra”? Extra...
A Starry Life
Sep 18, 20192 min read
Don’t be afraid to say, “I need a hand” sometimes!
I was raised by women. Strong, independent, black women. Women who went to work and took care of everything. We didnt need for anything ;...
A Starry Life
May 9, 20193 min read


self love. a perspective.
In the age of “love yourself first”, “self care is everything” the idea of being alone and happy is glorified. you are supposed to date...
A Starry Life
Apr 24, 20192 min read


“You can’t pour from an empty cup…”
When my friend/coworker said this to me, I heard her. I THOUGHT I was listening. But sometimes we get so caught up in whats going on in...
A Starry Life
Jul 11, 20182 min read
Is your vagina in good hands?
I heard this story about this girl who confessed to the guy she was dating that she had contracted an STD that was incurable and if he...
A Starry Life
Oct 25, 20173 min read
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